How To Give A Girl An Orgasm And Make Her Cum

Learning how to give the girl you like an orgasm, and make her cum hard might be one of the most important things you learn as a man. And yet so few men take the time to learn how to do it properly… In fact, most men get ‘female orgasms’ horribly wrong. So it’s no wonder why most women have to end up faking their orgasms. But don’t worry – having founded School Of Squirt back in 2012, we, Laura and Axel know how to do one thing better than anything else… And that’s teaching men how to give their woman the best orgasms of their lives. I mean, we created a whole downloadable video training course on just this one thing.

Foreplay, buildup, anticipation, and teasing

What you do before having sex is just as important as your actual technique to give her an orgasm. This is because, for women, sex is about more than just physical stimulation. It is about emotion. And it takes longer for a woman to get in the mood than for a man. So, if you really want to give her one of the best orgasms of her life, then foreplay, buildup, anticipation, and teasing are really important. She will need to be extremely horny, dripping wet and practically begging for your to make her cum before she is ready to actually have an orgasm. Here is out the guide on how to make her horny. Don’t underestimate the power of foreplay, since, for women, this literally allows their genitals to build up with sexual energy (and liquid, which means women only squirt after long periods of foreplay.)

Trust, intimacy, and vulnerability

A woman will never have an orgasm with you if she doesn’t trust you. So building trust and intimacy is one of the first things you should do if you want to make her cum. Women are afraid of making themselves emotionally and physically vulnerable to the guy. An orgasm is one of the ways of showing she is extremely comfortable, relaxed and happy. Having an orgasm also shows that she is surrendering to you. You are about to learn how to make women cum so hard that they have almost no control over their body. But a woman can easily stop herself from having an orgasm if she doesn’t trust you or feels you will take advantage of her vulnerability. So, it’s important to build trust and intimacy, and show a passionate and sensitive side too which will allow her to do the same.

Overcoming Female Shame And Guilt Surrounding Sexual Pleasure

Unfortunately, a lot of women still have negative feelings of shame and guilt surrounding sex, and orgasms. This won’t help her orgasm, but it is something you can help her overcome, and when you do, you will release a sexual side of her you’ve never seen before. Getting her in the right frame of mind is an important part of being able to give her an orgasm. The best way to do this is to make the whole experience fun. This way, her guilt, and shame will simply fade away.

 
Building trust and intimacy with help you make your girl orgasm (and squirt). For example, you could use roleplaying to make things more fun. When you both pretend you are someone different then those negative feelings won’t come up as much. Play fighting is a great way to get her ‘out of her mind’ and ‘into her body’ so she stops worrying about her negative feelings.

Showing that you are a guy who doesn’t have negative feelings about sex and would never judge her is the best way to allow her to feel the same way too. So, what’s the best way to give her an orgasm? There are 4 main ways to make her cum, and they all involve slightly different techniques, so let’s cover them here. The first one is the most obvious – during sex.

How To Make Her Orgasm During Sex

To give her an orgasm during sex you’ll need to use your penis to hit her g-spot. The feeling of being ‘filled up’ by your penis will feel amazing to her, but it isn’t always the best way to bring her to orgasm. In fact, some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm during sex. Which is why we’re going to cover the other ways you can do so below.

There is one position that rises above all others when it comes to making her cum during sex. Have your woman lie on her back on the edge of the bed and rest her bum on a couple of pillows so that her bottom half is slightly higher than her top half. Now, from a standing position enter her. Thrust in, but upwards at the same time. Because her spot is located in the top half of her vagina, it is easy to slide right past it with your penis. With this angle (you coming from below and thrusting upwards – and her on her back with bum raised) you’ll be able to confidently hit her g-spot and bring her to climax.

Orgasms From Fingering

Fingering a girl to orgasm is a great way to get started, especially if you know you can’t last very long during penetrative sex. Fingering is also the best way to make a girl squirt because you can use your fingers in exactly the right way to hit her g-spot.

There are numerous different fingering techniques, and we cover them all live in our training course – Squirting Triggers. 

It’s much easier to learn by watching a real demonstration, but here is a basic preview of what to do. Slip your two middle fingers inside of her and curl them slightly upwards (with her lying on her back.) With your two fingers curled upwards pointing towards her belly button, start to move your hand up and down (not so much in and out.) This allows you to hit the g-spot and you can also use the palm of your hand to rub against her clit.

This is the most basic technique. There are in fact 7 main ones which all add different degrees of pleasure and intensity and are highly recommended learning how to do them if you want to give your woman the ultimate form of pleasure.

Orgasms during oral sex

So, you want to try and make her cum by eating her pussy out? Okay, good for you. For some women, this is one of the best feelings in the world (and other women don’t like it at all.)

There are a lot of different ways you can go about doing this, and they could involve

• Blowing
• Kissing
• Sucking
• Biting
• Motorboating
• Humming

We’ve already written a huge guide on how to eat a girl out here. So instead of going over it now, I recommend you check out that guide.

Making Her Cum During Anal Sex

Anal sex orgasms are not only very different from normal orgasms, but they can totally unique and pleasurable for her to experience. Some women don’t like the idea of doing anal though, so here’s a good way you can introduce the idea to them. First off, when she gives you a blowjob, ask her to slip a finger into your bum and feel free to use lube and a condom if necessary. This will feel great and show you’re not afraid of the bum area. Next, you’ll want to start eating her pussy out. As you do this, slip a finger into her bum (use lube and a condom if necessary.) Because you let her do it to you, she’ll let you do it to her. Now you have two fingers in her bum while you eat her out, it’s not a big jump to try with your penis. Women often find that the fingers in the bum are so enjoyable that they’ll agree to anal. Later on, you’ll learn about prostrate orgasms, which come from anal sex and how to give them.

G-spot orgasms

G-spot orgasms are the ‘bread and butter’ of female orgasms. This is where women are truly lucky to be women because they have that extra spot that allows them to have mind-blowing orgasms.

The g-spot is located inside the vagina. If you take two fingers, slip them slowly inside her and curl your two infers upwards, deep inside her, you’ll be able to feel a small spongy spot. When she is aroused this increases in size and volume making it slightly easier to find.

Later on in this article, (and covered in depth in our video training course via live demonstration), you’ll learn how to give her multiple, stacked and full body orgasms using her G-spot.

Learn more about g-spot orgasms and making her squirt here.

Clitoral orgasms

The clit and the g-spot can give women two completely different kinds of orgasms. The g-spot, as you’ve just learned responds to direct stimulation of a finger or your penis.

The clit is located at the top part of the vagina and is often hidden away under a hood. During sexual arousal, it becomes engorged with blood and becomes more sensitive.

There are a number of ways you can stimulate the clit. The tongue is one of best because it can make sensitive adjustments to the speed and power of the stimulation. The clit also responds incredibly well to vibrations, which is why most women use a vibrator pressed against the clit to orgasm.

You can stimulate her clit during sex, or whilst finger her, using another finger. You can learn exactly how to do this in Video 4 of Squirting Triggers Training Course.

This works incredibly well to make her cum because you have the double stimulation on the g-spot and clit at the same time. One neat little trick is to use a vibrator on her clit during sex – more about that later on in this article.

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