What in the World is Femdom? What Does it Mean to Be a Pro-Domme?

What does Femdom mean? Is it BDSM? And What Does it Mean to be a Pro-Domme?

Good morning. It’s a wet, gloomy day here, so I hope it’s nicer where you are present. I was originally planning on doing something fun and whimsical, like a make-up tutorial for a “goth” inspired dominatrix look but I just can’t find the sunshine in my heart to do so. Instead, I thought I’d rather take this sunless day to actually talk about Femdom and what being a Pro-Domme is really like. Yes, Femdom is a part of BDSM. And yes, being a Pro-Domme means being a Professional Dominatrix.

What is in the Actual Hell is Femdom?

Simply put, Femdom is Female Domination. I feel that when a vanilla person thinks of BDSM(Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism, Masochism) they imagine the man as the stronger, dominate one. He’s tying the helpless damsel in distress up, blindfolding her, gagging her, and spanking her. And while this is a very real scene that could potentially happen, there are so many different types of BDSM scenes that could happen, I’d be here all day and night breaking it down. And yes, Femdom is most certainly BDSM.

In BDSM, Female Domination literally refers to the female partner being the dominant one, or the ‘Top’. Female Domination engages in physical and mental bondage activities such as CBT, face sitting, pegging, forced feminization, forced bi, verbal humiliation (SPH in particular), tease and denial, chastity, and the list goes on and on. And while it’s my humble opinion that Domme’s usually reign supreme over their male counterparts in the humiliation and mind fucks department, the fairer sex does not spare when it comes to the physical side of it either. That’s it, that’s all.

What is a Pro-Domme?

Now, on to the Pro-Domme thing. Again, simply put this means a Professional Dominatrix. Other titles that may be used are Mistress, Madame, Queen, Miss, Lady, Queen, Goddess, or my own title, Cuntress. Being a Pro-Domme is a form of sex work and it involves receiving tribute (one of the preferred terms for what you receive for services) to do all that fun Female Domination stuff! It’s a great gig if you’re made for it. Not everyone is. I am a real-time & online Pro-Domme. Yes, online Pro-Domming exists. And like I said, it can be a lucrative job. But you need to be cut out for it. You need to be born with certain personality traits and develop a certain skill set. Sure, you can learn and hone your skills (and I highly suggest you do!) but if you ain’t got it, you ain’t got it baby girl. I know I am merely skimming the surface here, but there is plenty of time for elaboration. For now, I am going to crawl back into bed and watch some YouTube.

Tell me what do you think of Femdom and being a Pro-Domme? Do you want to hear more about the fetish and my life and work as a Dominatrix? And yes, that is me in all three of those pictures.