Preparing For A Second Round Of Sex
If her motor is still running after round one and she wants another go at it, we'll tell you how to get into gear for more.
You're sweating, you're breathing heavy, and you feel like you just lost 10 pounds after that orgasm. You feel like you're about ready to pass out, but then you look over at her and she makes it clear that she's ready for more.
You have two choices at this point:
- You can politely decline and promptly fall asleep, or
- You can prepare yourself for the second round of sex and ensure her satisfaction.
Glad to see you opted for the latter. I mean, how would you feel if she left you hanging? Whether it's because one of you hasn't orgasmed yet or simply because you both want more sex, sometimes a second round is the way to go.
Problem is, although there are some guys who can easily go the second round, many guys have a hard time getting aroused for the second round of lovemaking. But with these tips, hopefully, you'll be better positioned to return to action next time opportunity knocks.
1. Cool Down
After the first round has come and gone, prepare yourself for the second by resting for a couple of minutes first. Yes, it's OK to chill out for a little while -- and it can even help with your performance.
One good option is to hop into the shower -- together. That's right; it's time to cool off and get things started in a different part of the home. Invite your partner to join you in the shower and spend a few moments cleansing and rubbing each other up and down. This will serve to both awaken both of your senses and rev your bodies up for another round of pleasure.
2. Heat Up
After you've toweled each other off, you can return to the bedroom. If you're not already hard from all the soapy scrubbing, a great way to get yourself back into the mood -- if she's into it -- is for your partner to give you a blowjob.
Besides the obvious and most delectable oral sex, another good tip is to put on some sexy mood music to really set the tone for your second round.
After the dance, slip a porn movie into the DVD player and lie back and enjoy the sights and sounds of what's happening onscreen. Porn tends to bring out the nasty in many women. But beware: some women hate porn. In such a case, opt for an "erotic" film instead — it's much tamer.
If you prefer to do so, mimic what you see onscreen. If you're still feeling somewhat chill, lightly massage each other sexually. That is, while you rub her back with your hands, pause every once in a while and rub your hardening penis along her butt cheeks.
Now that you're erect, make your way into your favorite place and do your penetrative thing.
If you can't maintain your erection once you're inside her, however, due to the fact that your penis is still numb, or because you're simply not as excited as you were the first time, using a penis ring will definitely help as it will keep the blood trapped in your penis and keep you erect.
If you're not a big fan of toys, however, have your woman close her legs and proceed to open your own; that way, the sensation will feel somewhat tighter for you.
As well, keep in mind that your mind has a lot to do with how your body reacts. So if you fantasize your woman looking her hottest and stripping for you at a strip joint, or fantasize about walking into an upper class orgy, perhaps your erection will maintain itself.
If worst comes to worst
If there's absolutely no way that you can manage to keep your penis hard no matter how hard you try and yet your woman is dying to get her rocks off, your best bet would be to focus your efforts on driving her crazy via foreplay.
Instead of trying to get an erection via manipulation, instead use your fingers to play with her vagina and the surrounding areas. Tickle her clitoris and insert your fingers into her every now and then.
If she begins getting extremely excited, bring your face down to the area and lick away. Move slowly and take your time; there shouldn't be any sense of urgency.
As well, if you're a big fan of incorporating food into your foreplay, then feel free to slice up some mango, strawberries or any other juicy fruit you think may accommodate you in the erection department, and feed each other.
Before you know it, you will have achieved that erection and by then, it's up to you and your woman to keep it up.
It takes two
While I am a firm believer that it takes both parties to achieve a great second round of sex, my mission is to help you be all that you can be between the sheets. Getting her to accommodate your secondary needs is up to you.
Until next time, keep taking two until you get it right.