10 women reveal why they love going down on you
"I love feeling a guy grow hard for me."
As the proud owner of a penis, you already know that blowjobs are amazing. I mean, what’s not to love about getting pleasured without lifting a finger?
But as much as you love being on the receiving end, did you know that a lot of women absolutely adore going down on you? Seriously! Most women find it extremely empowering when they’re bobbing up and down on your most vulnerable body part, sucking the life force out of you.
And if you’ve ever wondered why they like it so much, you’re in luck, because the folks over at FHM found an illuminating ask Reddit thread titled “Women who like giving blowjobs, why?” where a bunch of dick-loving ladies answers this pressing question.
Ready to find out? Great! Let's proceed.
1. “Because I like receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself."
"Head pro quo, Clarice.”
2. "Some people just don't quite enjoy going down on a guy or a girl, but we're just a bunch of animals on a rock spinning through space and we'll all eventually die. Why not suck some dick here and there and make each other happy? Christ hell."
Wow, that was philosophical. The road to happiness is sucking dick...? Sure, why not.
3. "Turns me on, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose its also a control thing."
4. “I love pleasing a man. I love hearing him moan. I love being in control of his pleasure. I love insisting that he relax and let me do this! I love the feeling of him inside of me. I love feeling him grow as he becomes more excited! I love the intimate connection that we form. And I love the taste of cum.”
5. “I like giving them not because I like giving them, but I like the feeling of being greatly in power over his sexual experience if even for just a little while. Because other than that, I'm pretty damn submissive.”
6. "It's the hottest thing ever when a guy is moaning in bliss and throbbing in your mouth. There's nothing like it."
7. "I love hearing a man moan and cum because of what I'm doing to him...but the moans are the best part. It sucks when a man isn't vocal."
Hear that, gentlemen? Be. Vocal.
8. "If I'm in control, it's a fucking power trip, man. To have that much control over a man? To know you can make him groan in pleasure when he tries to stay stoic and quiet, to watch his brow furrow in concentration on how good it feels when he tries to arch his hips a bit to press more into your mouth, and you can deny that... it's intoxicating."
9. "The moaning. There is nothing...and I tell you, NOTHING better than hearing a man genuinely moan. Not that fake porn shit. Sucking dick is pretty addictive because it is quite empowering. I also enjoy the feeling of a man 'burst' in my mouth. I can literally feel the throbbing as he cums. It's just so great!!!"
10. "Because it is absolutely amazing. I love to give pleasure to my darling, and I simply relish his delight. The sensation of a cock growing in my mouth, knowing that I am the source of that response, is wonderful. Also...he is delicious."
To sum things up a little, it would seem as though women like going down on you for one of three reasons:
1) They delight in the feeling of being in control of your penis and your sexuality, or in other words, being a dicktator (Get it? Dick dictator? Dicktator? Haha).
2) They hope you'll return the favor.
3) They just really like dicks.